Reason Why Ladies Hate Each Other

Read this interesting piece i got from surfing this
site and decided to share with you guys, so lets
hear your own opinion.
For me, i think the writer made a lot of sense, why are women their own worst enemy? Question
Your girlfriends tell you things like; “ I don’t
usually get along with women, I prefer being
friends with males than females ,” or your sisters
say; “ I don’t have female friends because
they’re too much drama .”

A lady walks into a room and some other ladies
in the room start to hate for no reason. They
make rude remarks, give icy stares that would
make the newcomer almost bury herself if she
has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who
immediately turns into an ice queen upon the
very sight of you, despite you having done
absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way.

Unlike men, women will often dislike another
woman for no logical reason at all. The female
folks are quick to judge one another and they are
less likely to become friends with someone who
could be perceived as a sexual rival. A number
of ladies will tell you that they have survived at
least one mean attack from another lady, who
badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or
made them feel less than a human being.

If you’ve never done anything to another woman
to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then
it’s likely that she has some serious issues and
she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame
yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done
nothing wrong. The funny thing is that despite all
the drama men create in women’s lives and or
the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the
women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a
fellow woman, who has done nothing to them.

But why is it so, why do women hate each other
so much? I’ld tell you.

1. Jealousy : Most women, whether they admit it
or not, like to have attention focused on them. If
there’s something taking it away from them,
especially another woman, then she gets a little
intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some
women would hate you, if they think you’re
prettier than them. Your mere presence makes
them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier,
they would hate. If they are single, they will see
you as the competition. If they are married, they
will see you as the seductive temptress trying to
steal their man away.

2. Inferiority complex : Some ladies start to feel
inferior when others are showered compliments
and they are not. They start to hate the lady
who received the compliment as if it was her
fault. If another lady commands respect and
they don’t they begin to hate.

3. Pride : Some women have a little too much
pride within themselves and therefore cannot like
anyone who they perceive is better than them.
It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of
women confuse it with pride.

4. Insecurity : Some women are very insecure.
They judge other women according to their
insecurities and what makes them feel better
about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s
nature to be jealous of another women but a
woman who knows her true self-worth can never
be jealous of another. Not every woman has the
habit of hating other women.

So for women who have been attacked by others
for no reason, just ignore them and keep being
your awesome self. There are billions of people
walking the surface of the earth, why be
bothered over those hating you.

For those who are in the habit of hating others,
stop seeing other women as competition. You
should not feel threatened by their confidence.
Your self-worth should not be measured by
another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop
looking for reasons to hate every woman you
meet.

You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud
of who you are and your appearance. When you
see a beautiful lady you should complement her
rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating. Life
is too short, after all.

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