Many of the Outdated flirting moves are used in
romance novels and romantic comedies.
Unfortunately, the flirting moves used in the
movies never always work in our real life. - Be
creative. Be real.
Perhaps, you’ve noticed that in movies a woman
can get the man by using a few worst flirting
moves, however, you might not be as lucky as
she is.
Here are 10 Outdated Flirting Moves you should
Quit Employing.
1. Make him jealous-
Perhaps, you want to date a nice guy, but it
seems he is not interested in you. So you
decided to hook up with one of his best friends,
because you think it will make him jealous and
he will definitely fall in love with you. Well, girls,
this is actually one of the worst flirting moves
you should never use. Never flirt with the other
guy to impress your crush. It doesn’t work.
2. Twirling your hair-
Sure, men like beautiful locks, but mindlessly
twirling your hair won’t make your crush fall in
love with you. After all, the wind might not blow
your hair like you are posing for your photo-
shoots. Hair flips can be lovely, if you do them
correctly, but if you don’t, you could whack
someone in their face.
3. Eat enticingly-
Did you watch “Horrible Bosses”? Do you
remember Jennifer Aniston’s window scene? You
should not try it in public. Everybody will stare,
but it will be ridiculous. It’s so funny to see in a
movie, but you could easily make a fool out of
yourself in real life.
4. Starting the relationship in the public eye-
Are you going to admit you love someone? It’s
great, but make sure you do it in private. Avoid
doing it in front of his friends, your entire
company or school. If a man turns you down, it
will be extremely embarrassing. Yes, he might
return your affection, but do you really want to
begin your relationship in the public eye? I’m
sure, you don’t.
5. Lie-
You know, couples lie about everything in
movies. No matter how small or big the lie is,
they have to tell the truth. Then, they fight and
make up in the last 20-30 minutes of screen
time. In fact, there is no reason to lie to a crush,
boyfriend or spouse. I speak from my personal
experience. It’s much better to avoid the fighting
and much more enjoyable to stick to the kissing.
6. Fight and kiss-
Now, can you tell me how many times have you
seen a couple screaming at each other just to
end the argument with a make-out session? In
movies, it occurs very often, but in real life, most
fights don’t have a pleasant outcome. Sure, you
might end up kissing, but your problems won’t
disappear and you will have to deal with them in
the morning.
7. Bump into him-
Well, girls, this flirting move is not so bad and it
can actually help you to know if your crush is
interested in you. Just find out his schedule, turn
a corner at the same time that your crush does
so that you collide. Don’t forget to take a stack
of papers, and when you both collide make sure
your papers fly everywhere. If your crush bends
down to pick them up, it’s a good sign. But if he
just keeps walking, you should certainly forget
about him. He is not worth your time.
8. Winking-
Well, maybe it seems cliché, but many women
think that winking is an effective flirting move
and a great way to attract any man. However, if
you wink at him several times, he may think you
have a tick. If you want to attract a man, make a
good eye contact instead of winking. It’s smart
and it shows you are really interested in him.
Just make sure you don’t stare.
9. Laughing at everything he says-
When things are really funny, laughing is an
excellent way to flirt. But if you laugh at every
word or sentence he says, you will confuse him
and he might think you are a little silly. A lovely
smile is everything you need in order to attract a
man. When he says something funny, you might
want to laugh, but not too much.
10. Complimenting him-
Compliments are good in moderation but terrible
in excess. While it’s okay to say a few nice
compliments, you don’t need to compliment him
every minute. Tell him that he looks great in that
shirt, or compliment his cooking skills, if he
cooked you dinner, and he will fall in love with
you in a jiff. If you enjoy meeting him, you can
say that too.
romance novels and romantic comedies.
Unfortunately, the flirting moves used in the
movies never always work in our real life. - Be
creative. Be real.
Perhaps, you’ve noticed that in movies a woman
can get the man by using a few worst flirting
moves, however, you might not be as lucky as
she is.
Here are 10 Outdated Flirting Moves you should
Quit Employing.
1. Make him jealous-
Perhaps, you want to date a nice guy, but it
seems he is not interested in you. So you
decided to hook up with one of his best friends,
because you think it will make him jealous and
he will definitely fall in love with you. Well, girls,
this is actually one of the worst flirting moves
you should never use. Never flirt with the other
guy to impress your crush. It doesn’t work.
2. Twirling your hair-
Sure, men like beautiful locks, but mindlessly
twirling your hair won’t make your crush fall in
love with you. After all, the wind might not blow
your hair like you are posing for your photo-
shoots. Hair flips can be lovely, if you do them
correctly, but if you don’t, you could whack
someone in their face.
3. Eat enticingly-
Did you watch “Horrible Bosses”? Do you
remember Jennifer Aniston’s window scene? You
should not try it in public. Everybody will stare,
but it will be ridiculous. It’s so funny to see in a
movie, but you could easily make a fool out of
yourself in real life.
4. Starting the relationship in the public eye-
Are you going to admit you love someone? It’s
great, but make sure you do it in private. Avoid
doing it in front of his friends, your entire
company or school. If a man turns you down, it
will be extremely embarrassing. Yes, he might
return your affection, but do you really want to
begin your relationship in the public eye? I’m
sure, you don’t.
5. Lie-
You know, couples lie about everything in
movies. No matter how small or big the lie is,
they have to tell the truth. Then, they fight and
make up in the last 20-30 minutes of screen
time. In fact, there is no reason to lie to a crush,
boyfriend or spouse. I speak from my personal
experience. It’s much better to avoid the fighting
and much more enjoyable to stick to the kissing.
6. Fight and kiss-
Now, can you tell me how many times have you
seen a couple screaming at each other just to
end the argument with a make-out session? In
movies, it occurs very often, but in real life, most
fights don’t have a pleasant outcome. Sure, you
might end up kissing, but your problems won’t
disappear and you will have to deal with them in
the morning.
7. Bump into him-
Well, girls, this flirting move is not so bad and it
can actually help you to know if your crush is
interested in you. Just find out his schedule, turn
a corner at the same time that your crush does
so that you collide. Don’t forget to take a stack
of papers, and when you both collide make sure
your papers fly everywhere. If your crush bends
down to pick them up, it’s a good sign. But if he
just keeps walking, you should certainly forget
about him. He is not worth your time.
8. Winking-
Well, maybe it seems cliché, but many women
think that winking is an effective flirting move
and a great way to attract any man. However, if
you wink at him several times, he may think you
have a tick. If you want to attract a man, make a
good eye contact instead of winking. It’s smart
and it shows you are really interested in him.
Just make sure you don’t stare.
9. Laughing at everything he says-
When things are really funny, laughing is an
excellent way to flirt. But if you laugh at every
word or sentence he says, you will confuse him
and he might think you are a little silly. A lovely
smile is everything you need in order to attract a
man. When he says something funny, you might
want to laugh, but not too much.
10. Complimenting him-
Compliments are good in moderation but terrible
in excess. While it’s okay to say a few nice
compliments, you don’t need to compliment him
every minute. Tell him that he looks great in that
shirt, or compliment his cooking skills, if he
cooked you dinner, and he will fall in love with
you in a jiff. If you enjoy meeting him, you can
say that too.
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